About

Lynn, of Phone Sex Secrets, met Tom Cat through her phone sex referral service. Once she learned of his strong appetite for and long-standing patronage of phone sex providers (over 500 PSOs in his list of favorites — and that doesn’t stop him from looking for the next best girls to add to his phone sex harem either!), she thought he might just be the man to provide a much needed service: The honest review of phone sex operators and their services. This site was born.

Details on the criteria and rating system is here, but to better assist you with determining if Tom Cat’s reviews of erotic phone sex girls will match your own needs, here’s a little bit about Tom Cat:

I have been a customer with Keen/Niteflirt for over 12 years. During that time, I have spoken with hundreds of flirts. Some are one and done’s, others I’ve built long and fulfilling relationships with. Someone suggested that it might be helpful sharing my insights about my favorite flirts. So here it is…

Let me first put the traditional disclaimer out there. These are MY results based on what I’VE been looking for and your individual results may vary. I think a successful relationship with a PSO depends on two things:

1) Knowing what YOU are looking for – your partner is not a mind reader. While she can make suggestions on role plays, fetishes, kinks, etc, ultimately you have to know and be responsible for what you want out of a call. Being willing to experiment a bit to discover your “sweet spots” is a good thing, but if it doesn’t work out, don’t necessarily blame the girl. Own and accept that you chose to step outside your comfort zone. And when you DO know what you want, be as specific as possible with your partner.

2) Accept that not every personality clicks – I attribute much of my successful calls to my outgoing nature. A good PSO will try to nurture whatever your personality is and help you to be comfortable. But sometimes there just is no chemistry, no fireworks, no connection. Again, unless the flirt has been unusually rude, dismissive or otherwise unprofessional, just move on to the next one and hope for better results next time.

So what does it for me? I like talking with relatively fit, large breasted Caucasian women. I have no interest in BBW. I’m open to African American, Asian, Latino/Hispanic, but not drawn to them. Age is not an issue, although I don’t find many over 45 that are to my liking. Other than my love of breasts, I don’t really have any kinks or fetishes to speak of that I seek out on Niteflirt. I don’t seek a dom or pure submissive, although I have experimented with both. I definitely don’t seek out a smoking, stocking, or foot fetish. I don’t consider myself a cuckold, I don’t seek out sissification, financial domination or ignore lines and I’m not into humiliation. Ultimately, I am seeking a GFE that does one of two things – an intelligent, well-spoken woman that I can talk about anything with (personal, political, sports, entertainment, etc) and, because of the closeness that we develop, we may also play sexually OR a fun sexual partner for role plays, mutual intoxication, mutual masturbation, and the occasional dabbling in submissive or dom behavior. If that’s NOT what you’re looking for, then odds are good that these reviews may not be very helpful to you, outside of entertainment. Oh, one other thing. Because of the number of calls I like to make, my price point is usually $1.50 or less, focusing on $1.00 and below. I can occasionally stretch up to $2.50, but leave more expensive girls than that to society’s big spenders.

Need to know more? Have questions?

You can find out more about Tom Cat in this interview at Sex Kitten. And here’s an FAQ!

FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

  1. What Does A Review Entail?
  2. What Do The Ratings & Icons Mean?
  3. I Cannot Find The PSO You Reviewed...
  4. I Was Reviewed & I Want A Badge For My Site!
  5. Hey, You're Using My Photo, Description, Etc., Without My Permission!
  6. Why Isn't My Favorite Phone Sex Company Listed?
  7. That Review Wasn't Fair!
  8. I Posted A Comment Or Review & You Didn't Publish It
  9. How Can I Be Featured At The Site?

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Unless otherwise noted, all the phone sex operator reviews on this site are by Tom Cat. (If you’d like to submit a review yourself, you may do so here.)

This phone sex review site is maintained by Lynn.

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